Should I confront my girlfriend?
EDMAN - Jul 20 2013 at 22:41
Hello, I'm worried about my girlfriend. I've had to work abroad this summer (just for 2 months), and I'm worried that she might have met another man while I've been away. We've been going out together for 10 months and it's been great, but before I left she said she wanted to have fun when I was away. The question is - Should I try to confront her to find out if she has seen another man, or should I just try to ignore it and hope for the best ? I'll see her in 2 weeks when I go back.
Most assuredly you should confront her. However, I would approach the topic in kind. The mere fact that you pose the question may be a bigger issue. You will not find peace within the relationship if you do not at least ask the question. Again, approach in kind-it will go along way.
TinaW