Need some help

Well me and my girlfrieng have been together for three years last year we were having some problems and I started talking with another girl online for like sixmonths said a lot ofstuf I shouldn't had but did don't know why I talked with her so long but I put a stop to it well here a year later she found it and she is kooking at it as I cheated onher so now I'm back home sleeping on the couch and tryig to figure out what we should do next. Thanks for any help

first of all, own up your mistake and ask yourself if you really do love your girlfriend to deserve another chance.. if you were in her situation, would you have been less forgiving? she is hurt. so go make up for it big time. and not just because you were caught but because you are really sorry for what you have done. and you were clearly sorry because you put a stop to it. good luck man. i hope you find your way back to your bed.. with 5 dozen of roses, scented candles, serious romantic dinner and lots of kneeling to say you're sorry.. ;)

I did I told her I was wrong and that I didn't know what I was thinking this past weekend was great we had lots of fun and things were good then yesterday it started all over again like it was the first day she found out again I do love her very much and trying my best here we have been going for lunch everyday and talking and today she text me and said no lunch

give her time, man.. girls have these relapses. and it will take time for her to get over it. you broke her trust, it will take time to put the pieces back-- but it will. hell hath no fury.. but love will heal. ♥

I know it's just that things went greatfor like 4 days now this I knew she would still bring it up but I didn't think it would be as bad

give it a few more weeks... let her grieve. if it still persists then take hold of the relationship and both of you make a pact never to bring it up again and make a new start. else, time to move on separately. it will take time, but it will also take maturity from both of you.

Yeah I know I'm not going to give up I know she loves me very much to well thanks for all your help I'll post again in a few days we will see how it goes

Well things have been up and down we don't have her kids this week there with there dad and its starting all over again I just don't know what to do she says she wants to work things out but I'm not sure if she does she is all ways bringing it up she wants me to go talk to some one but I haven't been paused ind weeks I get paid this Friday and that's the first thing on my list I just don't know what to do any more