What should I do? (please help)

For the last 7 years I have had an on/off relationship with a guy I have known most of my life. Each time we spend time with each other things get more serious. We have spent many nights together and discussed our feelings on numerous occasions however only recently we have slept together and this has made things more complicated. I have told him that I love him and at the time I felt that I did, however, now I'm not so sure. We used to see each other for a period of time and then not speak for a while and this happened many times but now we have been seeing eachother all the time and I feel claustrophobic. He constantly wants to see me and tells me he loves me all the time. I feel that I love him sometimes when we are enjoying and with other people but sometimes I can't stand him touching me or showing me any affection. I am worried that if I tell him how I feel I will lose him forever and may regret this as he thinks that we should be together and has said that he will wait until I am ready. Its been 7 years and I don't think that I will ever be ready. I'm worried that I will regret ending this relationship because I do have feelings for him but there's no excitement and I hardly want to see him anymore. What should I do?

You need to be honest with yourself and to him as well. The longer you let your feeling's fester the problems will only get worse. Talk it out with him although it won't be easy but it is better to hurt someone at the beginning before it gets even more serious. Being unhappy in a relationship where the feeling are not mutual is a cause for destruction if you are not honest.