Ex boyfriend is confusing me

My ex sent me an apology for everything that happened between us and I said we could meet up and talk about things, we decided to try again. Since then he was so nice and lovely, and then changed, didn't speak to me unless he needed something, yet told people were seeing each other. He says he's changed but he's acting like he hasn't. My feelings for him never went away and I'm scared he's going to destroy me all over again. I don't know what to do. I missed him so much.

If those feelings are true, why would you seem so concerned? You may have missed the presence of a man being around, but you should not be weary about him hurting you. You should never be scared in any kind of relationship in general especially if you to are lovers, and if he only speaks to you when he needs something you are clearly being used. There are better men out there don't get hooked on one man especially if he doesn't treat his woman the way they need to be treated, gently ,caring and loving you regardless. You seem smart so make the right decision so you don't get hurt.

He hasn't changed and that is the bottom line. You should revert to being apart but explain to him why and illustrate how things remained the same - and bad. He shouldn't treat you like that if he loves you. Missing someone is an awful feeling but what is worse is being hurt and used by someone who you love.