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I have been seeing a man for about a month now. He has been sweet and attentive. We have been intimate on several occasions, but it seems like he's too shy or he's unwilling to make a move most of the time and then it ends up feeling awkward. He wants to hang out and he calls everyday. I'm a bit of a traditionalist and so I don't really know what it is that I should do here...

Confused mixed signals

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Dear Chloe77, Thank you for being courageous enough to share your story with us. This man that you're seeing seems to be a great guy but just a little shy. Here is how I see it - if he has all that you want in a man, don't let his shyness get in the way of that. Let him get comfortable enough to make moves on you. Allow him to get used to doing that because with all due respect, a month isn't that long. Be careful being so intimate so quickly with someone because that can lead to feelings and if this relationship doesn't go anywhere, that can lead to some pain that you don't deserve and neither does he. Just a thought - if you really care about someone, sometimes you have to overlook the little things about someone that you don't like. However, if this is something that you just absolutely can't deal with, maybe it's best to end this now rather than later when more time and feelings have been invested. I don't know if you believe in God or not, but I want you to know that He is with you at all times and you're not alone in this situation. Trust in the Lord to make you better and heal all wounds. All wounds do take time and I have faith in your problem that within time, it will all get better. I'll pray for you. Keep your head up, darling. I wish you the best. Love, Pazley ♥

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