Cheating partner

I have been with my partner for 11 years and we have 2 lovely girls. On Friday night I caught him texting secretly upstairs, I questioned him about it and he just came right out with it that he was texting this girl from work. He then apologised put on his shoes and walked out. I tried to phone him but he switched off his mobile. He returned home at ten o clock the morning after saying he was sorry and that nothing happened. I have kicked him out and told him its over. I feel so hurt and betrayed that he could do this to us.

hi allie,where did ur husband say he,d spent the nite.i always follow my gut instinct and its usually rite,wots urs telling u.y does he need to text this woman is she married.uu know in ur heart if hes done ne thing if he has can u forgive him me and my husband r going thro sumthing similar hes been meeting up with his x can i forgive him, no.

Hi, he said he spent the night with her at her mums house but hes is adamant nothing happened. I dont know what to believe. My gut instinct is telling me that I dont think he would have it in him to do anything with her. I have seen this woman before, infact we had a few cross words about 12months ago. She is not married as her husband left her for a younger model, she is well known for being a bit too friendly (if you know what i mean) with a lot of males at his work. She is definately the manipulative kind. What do you make of it?

well u have to go with ur on judgemeny if u believe nothing happened then u must say no more about it to him but can u do that i couldnt id throw it up after every row we,d have if u can forgive end forget thats great but can u ,if he goes out will u b wondering who and where he is .

You would have to gauge what you are seeking out in life and work according to what you pursue in. Have you taken time to think about what has happened and cool down before asking your partner to explain about the situation? We can sort it out further by understanding what you want first. Jennifer [e-mail address removed]