i got dumped another time

in june my boyfriend dumped me after three months saying he wasnt feeling well anymore and after two weeks called me to tell me he had met his soulmate. . after weeks of anguish i get through all this and met this guy which i felt was my soulmate. . 7 years younger than me he is 27. .spent two fantastic months together even though he is very very busy at work. during mid august i felt he was treating me in a different way and when i asked him he told me that he doesnt know what he wants. . after a few weeks he told me that he wants to be alone. . i m sincerely devasted yet another time. i m 34 been through many relationships, gave my best but things always go wrong.

Dear Lost34, I understand what your going through. I myself went through numerous relationship and felt used and like I would never find anyone to love me but when I wasn't looking I found a good man. Hang in there don't try to communicate with this man and start taking care of you. Example, working out or doing something you enjoy. Go out with friends and if you don't have any go make some but try not to give your all so early on in relationships. Hope you feel better soon and I know in time you will find the right man for you, that will love you no matter what.