should i give up ? and how to move on!!??

theres so much to say ,im really trying to keep this to the facts! ive been married going on ten years, three yrs.ago i found a camera that my husband had filmed himself ,by hisself,doing things i never knew he liked to do,ive gotten on the computer and he had forgotten to log off and there were 429 emails from men and women! he was telling men he was bisexual! i am heart broken ,he is in denial ! i am homophobic ! but i love this man and im trying to keep an opened mind about this but he wont talk about it at all ! and now were not having sex at all !!!! help me please ! should i stay or leave !!!

he needs some coun ,take him to an expert.Dont give up unless it is hopeless,good luck

he wont go to counsling! he says i have no proof and nobody would believe me ! and hes right! like i would want anyone to know !