Does he respect me?

i live with my dude though we are in college. he always reminds me how much he loves me though some of his actions say otherwise. it happened that yesterday i went to my parents place and came back in the evening. when i was back my things had been hidden away from display and worse of all i found a used condom under our bed. i was so freaked out. i couldn't bare wat i just saw. i called him and in response he told me that it was his friend who asked for a place to spent with his girlfriend. the friend also assured me that he was responsible for that. my question is does my dude reall respect me asin how can he allow same1 do that while we stay together.

hi first of all to me he doesnt respect you if you you are living with this man he shouldnt have let any of his friends use your bedroom which both of you sleep in as a hotel for his friends thats nasty and desrespectful and worst you find a nasty condom under your bed thats just disgusting. i think he is just as bad as his friends cause y his friend couldnt take his girlfriend or whoever she is to his house or a hotel. i mean come on your boyfriend or friend dont respect u at home . things like that shouldnt be happening regardless. thats very unexceptable. thats the bed you and him sleep in but the way how this story sound i think his friend have his back i think he is the one messing around behind your back i wouldnt aceept him saying its his friends thats just not right. he should have tell his friend if he say it was him that mein i cant accept u to bring another woman in my house in my bed where me and my girlfriend sleeps and make love on it wouldnt be fair to her dont want to disrespect my home and my girlfriend. some time man will tell u how much they love u but there action shows different. think about what i said cause this sound fishy