My 'trashy' mail to the 'other woman'; I've gotta vent somewhere

I posted my rather long and unclear pain caused by my long distance husband's infidelity here http://www.peoplesproblems.org/showtopic/3634/Infidelity-The-Pain-Of-Too-Much-Trust I have since also sent an 'angry' message to the 'other woman' in a bid to deal with the pain. Below is the FB message I sent her. No reply yet. To **** (OW's name) I figured out why I could no longer see “***” on my FB, is because you blocked my profile from viewing yours. Blocking me, that is within your rights, it’s your FB, but totally unnecessary. I know after I spoke to my husband and mentioned that I saw your picture on FB, you immediately went to 'cover your tracks’. In my honest opinion, that is way too trashy! And that picture by the way, is not of a 49 old woman! You must feel great about yourself to put up a picture that is probably more than 10 yrs old! How do I know your age? One tip from someone who uses the internet efficiently; you are all over the world wide web; If I wanted to, I could find your home address (Post code ****, right?). But that is neither here nor there. So relax I am not going to dig any deeper. But I will say what I need to say here and now. First thing I would like you to know is, am going to TRY MY VERY BEST not to be disrespectful or lash out at a total stranger because of what my husband has done. I don't believe in fighting a woman over any man whatsoever; even if that man is my husband and the father of my two children. Neither am I going to be 'b***y' or 'stalk' you on your FB. It is beneath me to do that. So your hiding profile measures are totally unnecessary but very incriminating to say the least. Your actions have, in fact educated me on a few things about what is going on. So thank you for that. Listen up, because I am trying to be as graceful I can be, but I have every right to be angry. I am angry, not only at him but at myself for even thinking of writing these words to you. In normal circumstance, I would never do this. However, these are anything but normal times. For the first time in my life, I have found myself to want to claw out a woman's eyes, for a mistake done by a man. So forgive me in advance, if this turns out to be the 'beneath me' crap that I mentioned earlier. What I would really like to know from you is this; what exactly is your real deal anyway? Is it just the shag? Are you in-love with him? And you want his 'comforting' arms around you as you 'deal with some sh***'? Is that it? (I hope you have noticed the quote signs). The guy at work; the one you are pursuing for 'sexual harassment'? Is that why my husband doesn't get along with him well? Bravo woman, not only have you managed to rock ***'s (name) marriage but you are also f***ing with his job! You must now be asking yourself how much does she know really? I know enough to make me want to walk away from him and take our children. However why give you - the trashy b***y trap that you are - the power to destroy my marriage? If he and I split, it would be a mutual decision made between him and I; it would not be because of you. I will not dignify you with the satisfaction that you could possibly break this. You must also be asking yourself how much has he actually told her of what is going on? Are you shocked he told me about the guy and your so called 'sexual harassment' complaint? Are you shocked he told me your name, where he met you, the duration you worked in his office, the business you run (*KLMNOP* right), the night you all went out…etc? Don't be shocked, am his WIFE! He tells me all sorts of things. He tells me when he pees or farts (yes even in *City*), and when he is drunk and when he is sober. He tells me when he's broke and when he has money. Don't be shocked am his best friend. Nothing close to what you could ever be. Do I for a moment consider you a threat? No, a big NO! You are nothing compared to what I am to him. Unlike you, I have invested in him my time, energy, tears of joy & sorrow, and my entire heart. I have made the most romantic memories with him. He has taken me to places where a man only takes a woman he truly loves. Together we have made the most beautiful babies I have nursed him when he was sick, have held his head while he was puking in the toilet not to mention standing by him through rough and good times. He has nursed me when I was sick, cried on my chest, told me his most intimate details of his past and present, given me both his joy and deepest sorrows. Not only have I brought him to mind blowing sexual orgasm but I have also brought him to deep EMOTIONAL orgasm! Do you even know what emotional orgasm means? Don’t bother. You couldn't possibly comprehend the phrase. Woman! I could write a whole book about the nature of our love. All you need to know for now, is that our bond is significantly deeper than the superficial crap that you and many others seem to be contented with. You couldn't possibly compete with that. Just so you know, before you came into the picture, *** has never given me any reason to doubt him. To this day I believe in my heart, before you, he was celibate for me for all the duration we were apart. I truly believe that in my heart. So I can say with conviction that, this isn't really about him; it’s you - swinging your chest at a man who has not had sex for a long time! It is possible that you are now providing what I can’t provide for my husband because I am far away from him. But don’t ever lie to yourself that you are anything special; you are nothing but a warm body in the winter! I dignify myself in knowing the fact that it has nothing to do with what I could or couldn't provide for my husband at the moment. It has got a lot to do with you and your little a**-wagging. It has got a lot to do with your lack of class in chasing after a married man. It has got a lot to do with your own dissatisfaction in your matrimonial bed (shocked again how I know this?). The fact that you are married and you have your husband right there with you, says a lot about you, by the way. In my angry voice I say, maybe the two of you actually deserve each other. Maybe we should all join a swinger's club and we can switch back and forth. But that would be terribly BENEATH me. I would puke at the sight! Are you shocked that I can write English? Did you expect me to be some wimpy little insignificant wife in ("*different continent*") who waits on the day she will join him in (*husband's city*)? Did you think for a moment I will not feel any pain because I married him for that? Did you actually think I have no say, whatsoever, in his life in ****? Let me educate you woman; what **** and I have, is something far too many people only dream of. I did not marry him for anything but the pure LOVE I feel for him and the one he feels for me. I married him because beside Loving him, I happen to like hanging out with him; he ticks me. He brings out the best and worst in me. And I guess writing this message to you, is the latter. But because the love of my life, has found himself thinking with his d***, I refuse to be just another wife in a far away country. I will not let you think, even for a split second, that you have anything special with him. I respect myself enough to know that in my eyes, you are a worthless piece of a** with no dignity whatsoever. I should let u know I have nothing but contempt for you! I respect my marriage enough to demand answers from my husband - which I am now in the process of. I respect him enough to know that it is possible you caught him off guard! By the way, if am wrong about all this and only if HE actually FEELS anything for you; he can be yours with all due respect. That would be a choice only he can make. If your are the warm body in the winter however, feel free to continue providing those services; I may even feel generous and pay you for that! (Don't blame me if underpay you though.) Feel free to reply. You can even add me if you like. Would be happy to give you tips on what ticks him! It would be fun to hear from the trashy little w*** who b***y trapped my otherwise faithful husband! Oops! Did I say that? Sincerely, ***'s wife. PS: Oh and changing your Skype name from '****.****' to '***' and location ***? Totally very trashy. Choose a sticker or emoticon