My wife won't quit escorting

In 2012 my wife (24 at the time) lost her job and struggled to find work. She had always had a hot body and a friend of hers suggested she did some escorting work and she told me she had spoken to an agency about doing some part time escorting and i, naturally, told her i did not want her doing a job where she was paid for having sex with people. She told me that she wouldn't do that and she thought escorting clients to events was a good way of earning some money until she found some work. She went ahead and had a small portfolio done and she signed for an agency. After her third booking she confessed she had slept with the client and it caused a massive argument between us and she begged me to understand it was just a job and she was actively searching for a full time job and had no intention of doing it long term. After six months and with her constantly telling me she couldn't find another job she hit me with the news she was having her breasts enlarged. My wife had always been against cosmetic surgery and was very standoffish when i asked her why she wanted to have them done and why she had decided to go up to such a big size. She changed a lot of after her breasts done, and all talk of her looking for work went and she admitted she had stopped looking. Her clothes style changed, becoming very revealing and showing off her boob job, and her bookings increased. Four months ago i found out that a wealthy client of hers had paid for her breast implants, something i knew nothing about. Now she has told me that the same client has offered her the chance to be exclusive with him, so she wouldn't escort anymore and would just see him. My wife has admitted to me that she wants to accept it. What on earth has happened to her??? She has changed an awful lot and if she accepts his offer she will surely become more than just his escort, she would be his mistress / lover?

She will become his lover when she accepts his offer, and you will have to accept sharing her with him. I think you were incredibly naive in letting her become an escort. There was always the chance she would meet a wealthy guy who would give her anything she wanted...and thats who she found unfortunately for you. When she allowed him to pay for her to alter her body with the breast implants he owned a piece of her, and she knew it. No he expects her to commit fully to him and stop seeing other clients, and he knows she will say yes. She's been seduced by his wallet and the moment she starts seeing him exclusively is the moment you lose her forever. He will be her priority and not you, her sexual relationship with him will be the only thing that matters to you just as it does now.

i've been incredibly foolish, i know. There's no going back for her, and i can see the writing on the wall for my relationship. Matthew

It would be easy to criticize you for allowing her to be an escort etc, but you already know all of that. I think the main point is her realtionship with this client. He's much much more than just a client to her, and vice versa. There's chemistry between them and she loves the money he has and the money he spends on her. Making her exclusive to him is just the next step of making her his. Just because shes telling you she wants to accept it, she already has accepted it and has without question been exclusive to him for a while...she just wanted to give you time to digest the new development. she'll be in a full relationship with him before you know it, its no doubt what she wants and he wants.