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Ok so a few years ago me (aries)and a capricorn friend discovered we had feelings for each other (both female) and something happened. She was with someone at the time. We kind of became distant over the years. Now however, she has been back in touch and texts me to meet up etc. she is still friends with her ex however and they go out at times. Anyway, ive heard she has come out since breaking up with her ex. (Not told me though). We met up yesterday and i then had a few drinks last night, resulting in me texting her and coming on too strong. This morning i apologised for texting her etc. and sorry for bombarding her with messages, she obviously thinks im crazy!! I said i was truly sorry for it all and ruining whatever friendship we had. She replied "dont mention it again, line is drawn". Do you think she can forgive me? If so have i totally put her off and lost any chance of anything happening between us? Ive never ever stopped liking her which she knows. Can anyone advise me what to do or have i really messed up?

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Do as she said and do not mention it again. If you are planning on going to grab a bite to eat text her and extend and invitation to join you. Going shopping or just walking around the mall text and extend and invite. Do not bombard her with invites just casual every now and again. If she accepts then just keep it casual, do not bring it up, enjoy the time together and give her space, let her make the next move. Better to have a person you care about in your life as a friend then not have them in your life at all.

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2 things.. 1. Don't drink if it causes you to say or do things you normally wouldn't. That way you don't have to apologize or even feel anxious.... 2. The ball's in her court because you put it there with your actions after having a few drinks.

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