Im confused about my relationship; My current boyfriend and my ex

I broke up with my ex just about a year ago after being together 10 yrs since seniors in high school. We had fun and i still til this day love him but while we were together it seemed like we couldnt get things right financially. He never agreed with the break up and always told me "I was all he ever wanted". But I felt like it was time that we let the relationship go and i ended it. He never cheated or anything of that nature, though I did myself make a mistake in our relationship by cheating, he did forgive me; he was a good man and good father to our daughter but we should have accomplished more within 10 yrs together. Now Im with my current boyfriend and we have been dating almost a year now. He treats me good, we have fun and good conversation together, he pampers my needs and always shows respect around me. But he lies a lot about different things. Outrageous things!! I kind of have a feeling he's been cheating on me But I can't catch him in the act. But I dont understand why he would treat me so well if he's going to go out and cheat. His lie examples: 1- He told me he is in school, i spied on the school he was suppose to be going to and that was a lie, 2- He lied about his age 38 (really 45) Im 28. But he did come forward later. Plenty more big lies from him. What do you think I should do? I like my current boyfriend but Im not sure what he's hiding; I love my ex/the father of my child, but Im in this situation so I'm very confused right now? Any advice?

Sounds like you should go back to your old boyfriend and take a good look at yourself for the sake of your chld.

Ho Omiliio - Dump the new guy! Are you still in touch with the father of your child? How does he feel? If finances are the real issue, start with a budget. Figure out what you want for your financial future. See if you can work out a new 'money' scheme to reach your goals. How does your child feel? Maybe less id more in this situation? Good luck! Whatsup

So u guys think i should leave my current boyfriend? I'm gping to make a decision and Im not using my ex as a back up (i promise u). I admit i made mistakes and moved a little to quick instead of making things work.