Completely lost
EVA21 - Jan 31 2014 at 00:55
So,ive been dating this man for about 2 months now and he is 13 years older than me
In the beginning he was so very caring
he used to spend the whole day with me
we talked almost all the time
we used to get along great
then suddenly his behaviour is changed
he sends me only one poor lil mornin msg per day
After three weeks we had a proper conversation the day before
i thought that would get him back to who he was earlier
the one who loved me,cared for me
but there he goes again with his bad habit of neglecting
we talked about it n he said its because of his work
who would believe that rubbish,its not work,he is a liar
i think he is cheating on me
i love him very much and id be so damn hurt if this was true
the problem is i cant even get myself to talk to him about it
am afraid he might tell me he does not love me anymore or that he met some1 else n wants to break up with me
am so lost right now
dunno whether i should carry on with this or talk to him abt it
Eva, you've answered your questions about this man in your story.
You're pretty certain about his rubbish reasons for not communicating with you. You're demonstrating your maturity by 'reading' a man and his actions 13 years your senior.
You need to now use that maturity to walk away from this man for good because and I'm sorry to say, but you are no longer on his radar.