Am I and my boyfriend infatuated or is it love?

I met my boyfriend online. We live in different countries. But we always speak and see each other on skype. We got along during the first 6 months of our relationship. he came to me twice. we had problems and misunderstandings but we were able to solve them. he's got depression issues and i always do my best to understand him. later he couldn't say i love you to me anymore. he told me that the idea of it pressures him and the fact that we're far from each other. so i decided to fly to him next month and in april as well. but now he said that these decisions pressure him too. what should i do? please help me.

Gioia, what started out as i'net foray has now turned into a full on relationship. The problem is that your BF no longer wants to be in it but hasn't told you properly. His actions spoke when he went to you to meet face to face. Once you guys achieved this, problems occurred but you resolved them...face to face. His actions would speak now if he loved you, regardless of his depression. Instead he has stated in a round about way that he doesn't want you to fly to him because your very presence will 'pressure' him. He doesn't want to go face to face anymore. I'm sorry, but he no longer has the NEED for the relationship or you.

You have to accept the fact that he doesn't feel this relationship is going to work out. You need to move on too.