Him or her

My boyfriend's mom has recently been blaming me for all of my boyfriend's moods, attitude, and actions. Neither him nor I believe it has anything to do with me but only with the fact that his parents get on his nerves constantly. I am seriously debating leaving him after 2.5 years of dating because I can't deal with the way she treats me. Do I listen to my head saying that I should leave so I don't continue to be hurt or do I listen to my heart telling me to stay with the guy I love? I honestly have no clue what to do...

I personally haven't been in that situation before, but my mom did the same thing to my brother's girlfriend. It seems like mothers just get jealous. Tbh, there's no way around it. You're in the middle of it, but she probably just feels like she's being replaced by you. That isn't your problem. Regardless of how inconsiderate that sounds, it's the truth. Love is hard to find. If you love him and he loves you, then hold on to each other. My mom eventually got her way (sadly).....but I hope you have yours :)

Daddy'sgirl, if you're seriously debating leaving your BF, then you've formed a decision in your mind that regardless of his parent's attitude, your BF is just not worth the hassle or the hurt. If your love was that strong for your BF and he returned the love you have for him, then his parents wouldn't get a look in, regardless of what their opinion of you is. He wouldn't allow you to be constantly hurt by their behavior. The question is whether he's in the position to do this. If he defies his parents, then he's supporting you but can he do this? If he can't, then you need to follow your head and prevent his Mom from continually mistreating you. You don't deserve it...it's that simple.