Confused ex

ok. so me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago ( we were together 4 years and have a soon to be two year old) we tried not too long after but it didn't work out. He was very firm about his decision to not want to try again because we were just going back and forth falling out etc. I would bombard his phone with texts, phone calls I miss him all that come over and he would shut me down every time. one day he was very blunt and told me stop trying his feelings for me have changed. so after crying I picked myself up and accepted it but when I stopped contacting him he started to randomly text if im ok said hes still here for me etc.. he even told me about a dream he had of me and some guy hooking up I was shocked he told me because that obviously meant it bothered him. like I said when I don't contact him he will contact me but does it mean hes being nice, or he wants me back and how do I react im confused do I act single and date other guys and move on do I wait for my moment with my ex. I do miss him and Im not entertaining anyone else I enjoyed being in a relationship I don't like this single life. we were together for a long time he was like my best friend but I just don't know how to act from here on...

I agree, it is only two month into single life...... Give yourself a chance it is not that bad being on your own......

Yeah I agree. thank you

Fiona, what drove your ex from you was you were not giving him enough space in your relationship. Now that you gave him that space, he is probably missing you too. You both do have a chance of getting together again. Continue to give him the space and continue light friendship with him. Don't ask him to get back with you, if there is something on his mind he will tell you. Meanwhile concentrate on other things in Life. Being single can have its advantages too! Concentrate on your kid. Kids have an amazing way of giving us the affection we miss from partners. Explore that for a while.