Is it love

I love a girl a lot. I proposed her last May and she agreed to me. It continued for 2 months after which she said that she didnt love me anymore.After few months, in December she came to me and asked for a patchup...I agreed to it but after 2 months she said that she cant be in a relationship and she does not love anyone. I felt very bad and started avoiding her. But everytime she wants to talk to me or stands in front of me staring and pretending to talk with her friends. I still love the girl. What should I do now ?

Why are you torturing yourself? Just be friends with her....don't think of a serious relationship anyways she does not seem to be ready for that. So just keep it light and fun for now!

Sweet Swanapaul, It sounds as though she is this fickle pickle and can't make up her mind whether she is coming or going. She wants you in her life, but she doesn't appear to want Nor is ready for a Real Relationship at this moment. Stay friends for now. The best relationships start out like this, and this way you can nurture and nurse whatever is left for you both. However, even if she would commit tomorrow, she can't fully be trusted to Stay in this Big "C," so she, in essence, would really have to prove herself trustworthy. For now, feel it out, take things slow, but don't be so quick to wear your heart on your sleeve...she sounds confused, and although you "love the girl," will drive you insane All the time. Good luck.xx