Stuck between best friend and lover

im 16 and have talked to this boy for 9 nearly 10 months and i love him so much. when i told my best friend and they met she does not like him and basically made me end it and said that if i had started a relationship with him that she would have stopped talking to me. unknown to her me and the boy still talk and are still in love and now hes ended it and the only way he'll talk to me is if we get together cause as we are were never going to be together. i want to be with him and dont know how to tell my best friend and dont want to lose her. what do i do help i kept crying my eyes out i dont want to lose either of them

You shouldn't let your friend control who you see based on her opinion of them. It has nothing to do with her, You and this boy are in love. You should politely explain to your friend that you really like him and regardless of how she feels you're still going to see him. It would be childish of her if she doesn't speak to you but a true friend would be there for you no matter how they feel about your partner (or potential partner)