Emotional problem

My boyfriend seems to have emotions once in every two weeks whilst I am a very emotional person who loves to talk and exchange feelings etc. so yes, I do all the smouchy stuff in our relationship 99% of the time like saying I love u and giving the goodbye kisses etc. however I think he's too harsh and he drives me emotionally crazy until I'm not able to focus on anything including my school work. Sometimes I just want to talk for ten minutes before bedtime he prefer to watch anime, after not having talked for the entire day. I would give up everything to make him happy, if I'm having a bad day and just wanna hear him, he says I shld just let my day be bad and leave it so I do t need to tell him. This may sound silly but whenever he's hanging up the phone he just says I gone harsh and blunt and hangs up. I gone.... And If I call bk to say I live u he is vex. I just can't deal with this. We are so different, and this causes me to go close to insanity, should I calm down or shld he be a bit more emotional?