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Me and my fiance are 27 yrs old, have been together 3 years and have a 6 month old. She has been in and out of different modeling and acting jobs since she was 17. I support her in what she wants to do, except for a job she is being offered now. We have always talked about no nudity. She is now being offered a job that includes full nudity and I am not comfortable with it at all. I know I will personally not be able to let it go if she does it, on the other hand I do not want her to resent me later on in our relationship. I don't know what to do

Resentment

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The key to relationship is respect. Part of that is not controlling. She has free will. You can't tell her do this do that. Another key is communication. Be clear. I personally think thhat anyone who goes nude has no self respect. It completely objectifying- forget bbeing in a relationship. Moving on if you understand that and communicate that to her from ur heart hopefully it wil go into hers. Lastly I just want to say that as much as people don't like defiance, ppl respect other ppl who stand up for what they believe in. And if ur worried she'll think you against her it's all back to communication, make it clear you support her but you don't support that(model nude) good luck

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