Boyfriend ditched me, and asking me for my forgiveness after 10 months

We met online and were friends for sometime and liked each other( I liked him but dont know if he really liked or was just pretending). Later he came to my city for training, we started a relationship and I love him. After few months i felt there is something fishy, used to tell me he is sleepy when we are on phone, after sometime if i call on his number, his number would be busy. Used to have arguments, other than this i never thought he could cheat me. After few days, he just disappeared. Changed his number, blocked me on face book. I couldn't take the rejection, I almost committed suicide, and dropped the idea just for my parents. I came to know that he got engaged and he was committed to her, when he was pretending love to me. Now after 10 months of his disappearance, he message me online and call me asking to forgive him. About 2 months back, i received call from a stranger, but he didn't talk anything, later got a message from him saying he feel that i am pretty, he is a single father and want to meet me, I warned him not to contact me. But when i searched for that number using true caller app, it was my ex who called me n messaged like a stranger. I don't understand, why he is doing such things. He did what he wanted, just played with my feelings and left me. I didn't disturb him or trouble him in any way. But he he is making my life difficult by reminding me about him, when i am trying to get over it. I am getting into a relationship with someone else who really loves me and cares for me, but my ex is making it difficult for me. Please advice.

I don't think he would have gotten in relationship with you in the first place in he didn't have feelings for you to begin with. However he's obviously caught in indecision as he evidently cheated on you. His actions of completely blocking you out of his life was incredibly bad on this part. It demonstrates that he didn't think about your feelings to a great extent, he just wanted to be with this other women. Which is deplorable. He even drove you to want to commit suicide, with that in mind however you should try not to get super attached to someone in relationship. Don't depend on them to the point your life is over when they lose feelings or betray you. Rely on yourself, not others. If you want to be happy you can only reliably rely on yourself for such a thing, other people can easily drop you down to the point you got to. Also this guy acting as a strange is another deplorable, definitely disrespectful thing. I usually say everyone deserves a second chance, however he's clearly broke any even chance of that, since he's doing stuff like this. I think that his current relationship is going hay-wire or downhill. Or he's dissatisfied with it, and he's feelings for you have subsequently come back, as you're the next best thing. He could have been lying about being a father, there's no way to know that, that is true. Obviously block this person out of your life, if he can easily dump off on a rail-road track, then you can do the same. I feel this person is nothing but trouble, if he is capable of the conscientiously accomplishing these feats. With that in mind, I'd say if at any point he begins to contact you, block him, ignore him move on. There is only so many times he can get a new number or account on some website to add you. While doing this concentrate on being more independent first off, that's very important! Focus on your friends, hobbies and family. Generally making yourself happy without the need of depending on others, that way you'll probably just end up finding someone you love on the way to doing that. I hope that helped, good luck with avoiding and getting over this guy and I hope you have a wonderful day :)

Thank you :)