What to do? Do I have no more options

My bf of 7yrs is wonderful and is in love with me dearly, although I am by nature the more dominant one in our relationship. I have lived all my life independently and love the freedom of choice. We live apart and have not blended our families or spoke of the future. I have a habit of dating less dominant partners and have no options (cos I am not getting younger)to break his heart and look for a more dominant partner. Unsure of what to do? Is that too cold? This is an extremely brief outline of my situation.

Just quick question, so you guys have been dating for 7 years but he hasn't met your family and you haven't met his? Also question if you love him too. Just because you would like a dominant partner doesn't mean you should leave a man you love to go after one. Plus if you find out you don't love him, maybe you should move on.

Yes we have met each others parents. I do love him too, although couldn't see myself living with him or marrying. Blending families, I meant I have a daughter from prev relationship and he also has two sons from prev relationship. Your advice has been really helpful. Thank u for ur time.