Fake, time wasters about one on one chats

here my thing I like talking to adult people. I like to flirt etc . I into many things with other adults .I into discreet texting. but lately found people just dont know or trust others . I know what i seek . I have not found a site yet . that i can chat too . someone one on one . I not into chat rooms not my thing . 18+ sites and over should be for adults only. but you get more than that . I just like a site I could go to knowing there adult only there who are open minded and like to explore things online . without all the crap