Help! Am desperate!

so here's the problem i like this guy , i know him since 4 years and developed for him strong feelings but here's the problem , when i we met we kissed the first time and every time we saw each other even if we are not in relationship until now , and the past 2 years we did things for pleasure ( not sex) and he like it so much but i feel i was very easy girl because i accepted so quickly those things even if we are not in relationship,and until now : ( anyways i told him that i loved him but i know he dosen't love mebecause he calls me late at nights or when he feels alone or sad , and we are just friends in public ... this is really a mess and i don't know how to fix it ... and oh i forgot ! he has a girlfriend now and he wants me at the same time (but i know he just wants me for pleasure) but what can i do ? i love him so much, i tried to forget him those passing years but i can't ! what can make him love me or regret what he did to me? because he makes me very sad every time with his attitude towards me but he keeps calling me whenever he wants and don't answer me whenever he wants! that's makes me very sick and sad :( please help me i need it so much because am very tired of that

friends with benefits can fall in love and things can work out, I know this from personal experience however, he HAS a girlfriend. I know that you love him and believe me, this is going to seem hard to do but walk away....FOR NOW at least. you don't want to be the other woman, especially when you love him and you clearly have so much more to offer him. distance makes the heart grow fonder and when he realizes how much he misses you, and how much you mean to him, he might just come back. when you show him what he's lost, or is taking for granted, he will want you even more, exclusively. so I urge you to go out, enjoy yourself, try living or appearing to live your life without him and he will want you back. nothing hurts a man more than what he cant have. I once liked this boy for 3 years and all and he just wants to be FWB...well...I stopped talking to him, granted, I cried every night...but you know what...after some months the poor guy was literally begging me to date him. don't let your love and loyalty be taken for granted. if he isn't appreciating what you bring to the table, let him eat alone.

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