Relationship advice

Me and my long term Partner ( of 20years) have two children 4/7 year old , I thought things was going well , until up to a couple of months ago she said she's had enough of me taking her for granted and we are not together anymore just parents to the children ! We are still getting on fine but all closeness etc as gone , I've tried talking and she says not point it's too late, please help !

Bring home flowers after work. Plan a date night as a dance club or a romantic dinner. Buy her sexy outfits. Send a text during the day to just say how much you love her and are thinking about her. write her notes for her to find (in the fridge, on her dresser, in her car, etc.). You need to date her. Too many times we get caught up in the every day life that we take for granted our partners. It is hard for a woman (and a man too Im sure) to work, clean house, take care of kids, make dinner and thing "is this it? Is this all my life is going to mean?" They need the romance and excitement that had won them over to you in the first place. Think back on your first date. what did you do in those early days to get her attention and show her that you were her man?

Hi , I've tried all most of the things mentioned but no difference , I just find it hard she can switch like this, our youngest don is autistic and is hard work and as affected her a lot , I miss the closeness we had and obiouvsley the sex we had , just scared for the future ..