Am I stuck in love?

I had a bad past, and a lot of guys didn't want me because of it then this guy iv been seeing for a long while has helped me so much he got me off my antidepressants and he makes me smile phones me every night, comes an hours drive to see me, phones me when I'm upset, texts me every morning, we have slept together and he's the first guy to ever give me an orgasm the first ever guy to actually make me cum! But he don't want a relationship he told me not To fall for him but I have I know he won't be sleeping with me forever but I just want to tell him how I feel because I don't want to loose him if I tell him I know I'm going to loose him but I don't want to loose him yet I don't know what to do I keep hurting myself by overthinking and I know that when he goes I don't think I can cope I cry a lot because I don't want too loose him and I'm so scared to loose him if I tell him I have fell for him!? Is their something wrong with me that's why he can't be with me!!! Help me :'(

I'm not exactly sure what I can do to help you save some simple and very general advice with relationships (of any description), i.e. between males and females. If you want to talk to this guy, remember that we guys like things to be spelt out simply and unambiguously. Don't leave anything unsaid, don't assume he understands, make sure he does. Women tend to multitask and tend to discuss and think about things more, often leading to a breakdown between a couple since neither understands the point of view of the other (girl thinks guy's being intentionally stupid, guy thinks girl's nattering on without saying anything). Neither of these perceptions is correct, both are trying to interact using different rules and formats. Oh, and SUSEIDQ was correct; love in a romantic relationship is a mutual respect and exchange between equals, where you support each other as a team, listen to each other's thoughts and give feedback on ideas and emotions, provide spiritual/moral backing and more obviously, satisfy each other physically. It sounds like you've been hurt and have become a tad overattached to a decent guy simply because you've perhaps been with a bunch of not-so-decent guys. SO! In conclusion, talk about how you feel, be concise and to-the-point, make sure he understands. Either way it doesn't hurt as bad that way.