Fiance has very close friendship with his office colleague

I am engaged and going to get married in December. My fiancé is working in abroad. It’s our arranged marriage. Everything is going well but the problem is that he has a very short time of availability over phone or chat as there is a time difference and he is a very busy person too. I understand it and make no issues about his busyness. He calls me once daily as he got time in the evening. I am happy in it. But, on weekdays he is busy in his office and on weekends he has his cricket, volleyball matches, outings and other stuffs. I make no issues in it. But, I usually wait for his call all the day but he has no time neither in weekdays nor on weekends. And when he calls me he use to start his lovely dovely speech, “I miss you so much” and so onn. I think if he loves me so much then why he can’t take out at least 5 mins for me to talk. Last Saturday he has his office party at beach. He told me that he will be late. It was okay for me and I said,” Please click some of the pictures and send me how beach look alike, I haven’t seen a beach.” He told,”I will call you as soon as I will get time.” The whole day I waited, he hadn’t call. I was sad but I haven’t told him anything. I asked for pictures. He sent me his pic with his female colleague with too much closeness and intimacy. I was hurt. I shouted on him and objected, “I don’t like these types of things. If you want loyalty then be loyal.” Being a girl if I click these kinds of pics with my male office colleagues, it will be harmful for my future and I supposed not to do as I am going to get married. I am also not kind of an over friendly girl by myself. I know he is staying abroad and it is normal but being a normal Indian girl it does matter for me. I have never let him feel like unavailable, busy or I haven’t show him that I have so many friends who are boys and who are very close to me. I keep a distant. I usually don’t go out for hangout with any boy in person. If a group is going out then its fine. I think that he will not feel good if I do so. He tells me that he loves me and likes me, he is very eager to meet me and so on. He tells me that he is very eager to get married with me. But I don’t feel it from the heart. He also sends me his nude pics. In starting it was so shocking for me but after that I admit that we are going to marry and this is normal. (He doesn’t ask for my pics.) Please suggest what to do? I am feared for my future. Is he a genuine person?

I am a bit confused with your issues. You posted an issue last week about being in a relationship with a man who is abusive towards and your family are asking you to marry another man who is decent so you are confused as to which path to take. Yet today your post talks about how you are currently engaged to a man. Quite strange I must say.

*towards you