I may be a terrible person

I slept with a friend I recently got back in touch with, we'll say his name is Bob. I have a boyfriend.Bob and i have been good friends for 5 years now. Neither one of us ever tried to come on to one another. I actually tried to set Bob up with one of best friends years ago. The boyfriend and i have been together for a few months now, we had a 2 week break. He doesn't announce to anyone that I'm his girlfriend. He said it's because everyone knows. He talks to me through text every day briefly because he's always working and he's a bad communicator. I let him pass before our 2 week break. I came back because I really wanted to make things work. Aside from the recent Bob incident I was very faithful to him. I thought I was falling for him. I know he loves me but can't figure out why he acts that way. He's going through financial issues so i don't want to put him through anymore stress or heartbreak but I don't know what to do or how to do this. I want to be with him but the Bob incident and knowing that i have to confess about the Bob incident is making me want to call it off. Or I could continue to cheat with Bob and not nag my boyfriend about getting more attention. But I really don't want to hurt anyone anymore than I already have.

You have to decide whether you want to be with Bob or your boyfriend and stick to that together with it's consequences. If you stick with your boyfriend then you'll have to confess about the cheating and home he takes it well. It sounds like you are pitying your boyfriend by not wanting to bother him whilst he has his financial problems so I hope you are not staying with him out of pity.