Boyfriend doesn't want to hangout

So ive been seeing this guy for a year and a half now and just like 4 or 5 months ago we started getting really serious. we fell fast for each other and talked about our future. well hes moving across the country for school soon and he wants me and my 2yr old daughter to move with him. we talked about started a family together and eventually getting married. so evrything was going good, we do fight alot but always are fine the next day. his family just came to visit from the bahamas and i met them and actually got to know all of them and hung out with them all week. so the problem is that even though everything seems like it should be going great its not. he never puts me first, he always ditches me for his friends. which ive met all of them and they like me so theres no reason why i shouldnt be able to hangout with them too. and im not asking to hangout 24/7 and be the center of his world, i have my own stuff to do. but its like he goes out of his way to not hang out with me. he doesnt ever open up to me about anything. and i just feel like this is stupid i thought we were past all this confusion. i mean weve been dating for awhile, i met your family, we planned our future, so why does he never want to actualy spend time with me?