Not sure how he feels

I have a roommate that's also a best friend of mine. We both were not physically attracted to ea other but emotionaly we have bonded and connected on such a level its scary. We have hooked up over the past 6 months and even though we love each other it has only stayed on a friend level but over the past month everything has intenseified. More intensified. I'm not sure what he is feeling if anything. I have 2 kids at home and he is amazing with them they consider him more of a dad then their dad. He makes comments once in a while referring to them as his own. He has a daughter as well. But he just went through the break up with his daughters mother in Feb. Officially but have been off and on since highschool. He makes comments about us being a coulle . we live like a family we do the tgings for each other that couples do. Everyone we meet or sees pictures of us they always say there's no way we are just friends. Over the last 6 months we have made it through things I never thought I would have to.LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR. HE IS NOTVIOLENT HE IS AWESOME. He's 25 I'm 39