Big row with girlfriend

Hi All, me and my girlfriend had a huge row over dinner last thursday and we both said some things to each other in a way that was not nice,in a relationship we should be able to express ourselves to each other but she thinks im just moaning when i do. she has a very demanding job and has told me that i can make all the decisions with regards to us, which i think is a bit strange as we should both make those decisions, as it would feel like im her PA outside of work? anyway i text her saying can we talk but she hasn't yet responded, i was just wondering if anyone had any advice or had been through the same thing etc? i dont wanna badger her but need to know if we are finished. Thanks

You have contacted her once and so the ball's in her court. Your post portrays a woman immersed in her career and while she has stated that you can make all the decisions regarding your relationship together, she is really forgoing her responsibility to the relationship. You're correct..both of you should have an input and be able to express yourselves to each other...that's called communication. If she puts the shutters down and dismisses it with the excuse of you moaning then her mind is certainly not on your relationship together.

Sounds right to me, the thing is she never used to be like this it's only since she got promoted that things have changed really. it could be time to call it a day, her boys have just gone to uni and i know she's upset about that.i've tried to be supportive with it all but she says she wants space and will deal with it on her own ( very independent,self reliant etc,,so she says) a very private person also..relationships in my book are about the good and the bad, but she cant seem to understand that.