What should I do
MSDARKANDLOVELY - Sep 25 2014 at 21:45
Hi. I need some serious advice here please. I'm 20 and I am in love with a guy I have been with for about 8 months now. He is 39. Things got serious between us. He eventually asked me to move in with him due to certain circumstances. I got pregnant for him and things seemed to be going great. He was always telling me how much he loves me and I felt the same. I started to find out certain things and eventually I succumbed to the stress and lost the baby.It gets worse. The same day I lost our child, I not only found out that he has someone else but that she's also pregnant for him.I am currently still living with him due to certain circumstances and he has been since trying to convince me that he's going to do his fatherly duties but he does not want me to leave him. Honestly it hurts like hell cause I honestly do love this man. I keep hoping we could make it work but things only seem to be getting worse. Every time I tell myself I am leaving he always has a way of making me believe that we can get through this but I am not sure how much more of this I can take.
You need to get out immediately because if this guy's intentions were genuine, you would be his one and only. You need to look at his actions rather than just listen to his hollow words. Your whole post is one big red flag. If you can safely leave, then do so. You owe this 39 year old man nothing but you owe it to yourself to get out asap.
Jesus H Christ, agree 100% with Manalone!!!
Msdarkandlovely, where's your mum in all of this?