Boyfriend questionable

I have been in relationship with said guy for over a year now...allowed him to move in approx. 6 months ago..always says he loves me. Has told me from day one that he is going to move his daughter here from Dallas. I'm all for this..she is in a not good relationship and wants to go to school here. Problem being...now he tells me he is moving out and in with her when she gets here in few weeks to help her out. Already scheduled to sign lease at a beach house for 4 months. I never knew this. He says it's only temporary and it doesn't have anything to do with our relationship. I'm so confused....I'm ready to tell him to take a hike but then on the other hand am thinking that I may be the one who is crazy. Has anyone else heard of anyone doing this and what should I do????

It really sounds like he just wants to settle things with his daughter first. As he says, it really doesn't have anything to do with your relationship. With that said, if it's really bothering you that he's going to be away for a few months, then you should talk to him about it. If he values your relationship, then he should value your opinion on this matter as well, which basically entails that you two will be in a long-distance relationship for a few months.

I presume the rental is for daughter's benefit so why on earth is it only a 4-month lease? Is he saying they'll live there together only for 4 months, which he reckons is enough time for her to adapt to the new area before both of them moving back in with you (or her then going on to find her own place around that area while only he moved back in with you)?