Relationship probs

This is my first post, I've been dating this girl for 2 years and about a month before our 2 year anniversary her brother was leaving for college and there parents were out of town so he threw a party with illegal contraband and she got drunk like black out drunk and cheated on me but I forgave her for it because I love her so much and I know it would never happen again and she didn't do it intentionally, but she broke up with me a few days ago and I was so distraught like I've never felt something so painful in my life but I really feel she is my soulmate, from the moment I met her I knew there was something so special about her but we live in Virginia now and she plans on moving to California in 2 years but I want to be with her more than anything in the world she makes happier than I've ever been in life and I couldn't imagine life without her she is my everything I'm nothing without her I need some advice for this problem please

Well, I noticed you didn't mention what her reason for leaving you was. So that makes it a bit harder to advice you, but I will try. It's clear you're head over heels for this girl. And I think you should sit down with her and tell her in depth how you feel. And if she's moving, are you willing to go after her? Perhaps the guilt of accidentally cheating and the knowledge that she wants to move has caused her to end the relationship. Let her know you forgive her and might be willing to follow her to the end of the world.

She broke up with me because she said she felt guilty about accidentally cheating and she needed to clear her head and I'm more than willing to go with her and I've told her I would but she feels like she would be taking something away from me and I've try to assure her she wouldn't be but I don't think I convinced her enough thanks for your response I will defanantly give it a shot I need to do what ever it takes to win her back

That's tough to hear :/ It always seems that the people who work the hardest in the relationship get bummed out the most... Well, i can tell you that if she wants to move to California and everything behind (including you), just let her. Remember this quote: Don't beg someone to be a part of your life. If they want to be a part of your life, they will stay. Maybe it's for the best for you. She seems to be holding something else because even if she felt guilty, she wouldn't want to leave you forever? But then again, this is 2 years from now? A lot can happen and change. For now, talking is the best option. Discussing what you and her need to do will allow reassurance for both parts. But mainly best of luck to you my friend. You seem like a good person. Sometimes though, you just can't forgive people for what they've done. But you did and giving someone a second chance just to have them crush it isn't fair.