Quick question for some advice please!!

I'm new to this site but am very happy I found it. My husband and I got married when we were 18 and we just had our 23rd wedding anniversary in Sept. I need to know if the fact that we basically grew up together, might lead my husband to start loving me in more of a sisterly way than a wife? There's so much more that I'll be asking and telling u guys about, but I would like to know what u all think about that question. I need serious help bcuz I feel like I'm gonna lose my mind.

of course not!! why would you think that? even i grew up with my boyfriend and been together for a long time.. is there any specific reason of your belief? aren't you guys sexually active?

Sexually active? Barely. He likes to be verbally abusive to me, makes fun of my weight. Actually it seems like he loves his sister more than me. I've asked him if maybe it would be better if we divorce and be friends bcuz we do have 3 kids which all 3 are now of age. But he tells me I'm stupid and either to shut the fuck up or knock ur shit off.

How long have you allowed him to speak to you like this? You deserve more as a wife, does he speak to his family like this as well? Any human being deserves more respect than that and a wife a hell of a lot more. I agree with Suzie, maybe you need a break! You need to stand up for yourself and if he doesn't like that, is he really someone you want around? Please get me right, I'm not suggesting you turn the tables on him, just respectfully set in place the boundaries that should already be there such as how you will tolerate being spoken to