Abortion dte coming soon, should I tell her how I really feel about it??

right, I have recently met this girl who stays an hour away from me in a different town. we have been going out for near enough two months now and we really enjoy eachothers company and we get along amazing. Im 19 and she is soon to be 18. Due to her being at college we can only see eachother at the weekends (i.e we take turns going through to see eachother) Well... About 2weeks ago she found out the was pregnant, and it is defo mine. Now she has told me that she aint ready for a baby cause her age and she wants to live her life some more first, And i so understand that. But i dont think im ready either (i dont have a job or a house, still with parents) But i never have bevived in Abortion and thats were my problem is. I have never really understood why someone can go through with it till now but now i am having second thought about it becuse everytime i see a child or a baby i feel really really upset you know, well we have just got the appointment through for the Hospatil (Prob just to talk about the bortion and stuff) But she still wants to get it and by the sounds of it, is looking forward to it being over with. I aint told her how i feel about it, i dont know how too. I mean at the end of the day is it not her choice alone after all it is her body. Please, i really need help with this one, Im in peices. Thank You

hi, so sorry to hear your problem, but as you said its her body ,and reading your letter u do seem very young both of you, having a baby is a big step and it changes your life,shes in college, you dont say what you do, do you work ? can you support a baby?and you,ve only been togehter 2months,is this the girl you want to spend your life with ,and are you the boy she wants to spend her life with,she seems to have made up her mind anyway, and why didnt you use contraceptives , please talk to her about how u feel but dont hold out to much hope .

I'm really sorry about your problem. I'm much younger than you so i've probably got no right to give you advice but i'm going to anyway. I understand that you both want to live more of your lives before having a child and that you're worried about supporting it but, getting an abortion is taking away an innocent baby's life. I just want you to consider that when you talk to her. Yes, it might seem like an easy way to get away from the problem, but, throughout the rest of your life, you'll never know whether you made the right decision or not- (Yes, it's her body but it's also your child. It's a decision you have to make together.) Just really think about it and talk to her...