Feeling confused

There's a man I have worked with and over the last few months he has confided a lot in me including his relationship breakdown. We get on really well and talk a lot. I would have liked the relationship to go beyond friends and I think from some of the signs he has given me, he likes me too. Recently, another girl joined the team she is 13 years younger than him and has become very flirty and texts him very frequently and the texts are flirty. He has told me all of this. I feel a bit confused and let down as I thought there was something in it for us. He has told me, he just likes the attention from the other girl after his marriage breakdown. The thing is, this other girl has a boyfriend. Do you think I am wasting my time or do you think this flirty thing that is going on is going no where?

Is this man still married? If so, you should not even think about starting a relationship with him. I believe he does like the attention from the other girl after his marriage breakdown. I also believe he likes attention from you after his marriage breakdown. He is a cad. Move on and find someone who is worthy of your attention.

Hi, no he's no longer married, they are in the process of divorce. Thanks for your reply. I do agree, he is liking the attention, I just wish I hadn't May be got too attached. My fault really. The only thing is, I don't want him to get hurt from the flirty texts as I am pretty certain they will go no where but I need to realise he is man enough to sort this out himself !