Do I hang on.. or do I take the plunge???

Hi evrybody. Iv a big dilema, and i would apreciate if if evry1 cud giv their views on it! Im a guy in his early 20's who now works fulltime.. was with a girl for over 2 years who is stil a student.. but im not evn sure if shes my ex now or not!!.. We had a rocky relationship, but we always cared an loved each other. evrythin was ok-ish until 1 month ago.. we had a fite, the next day she told me she cudnt do this anymor. she said the past wile has just hurt her slowly.. an she needs time 2 herself. ofcorse i pleaded with her, but in the end up that was it, i said thanx 4 wastin my time an hung up. over the next 1/2 weeks we ocassionaly kept in contact.. then i met her mum, she advised me wat 2 do, so for valentines day i suprised with presents, an she luvd it! she said it was the nicest thing any1s evr dun 4 her. so we met up that week 4 dinr.. was gr8. i askd her did she want me, she said yes, i askd her did she want me 2 b her bf, she said yes! so evrythin was gr8 4 a week.. then she freaked out again. she didn wana meet me that day.. so i paniked an met her.. she told me she was realy fightend of the past bein re-inacted with us again, she felt pressured bak in2 it, she seems so confused! said shes been hurtin 4 a wile.. she cant get over the past. she evn said " i luv evry bone in ur body.. but i dont kno if im in luv with u"... now ppl tell me, does that make ANY sense 2 ues??? we both said goodbye then, like a goodbye 4evr.. but no1 actualy said thats it, wer finishd. since then i havnt herd from her.. its been quite a few days now. evn her own mother is angry with her, she said she doesnt evn recognise her own daughter anymor. the "ex" evn said shes changed. she also said that she doesnt want me 2 hang about on her, that i deserv betr.. but she also said mayb a few months down the line we cud get bak 2gether. its like she wants her fun no wiout me.. then 2 cum bak mayb! she also luvs her nites out, she feels that shes worried 2 tell me wen shes goin out.. evn tho she goes out all the time anyway an i dont say anythn 2 her bout it like! me an her mother both believ her housem8 has a big influence on her. me an the m8 havnt realy got on.. she seems bitter an controlin towards the ex/gf an my relationship. i kno the ex/gf is afraid of losin her m8 becos of our relationship. her mother has told me 2 get on wi my life, that her daughter will realise wat she dun.. but my m8s say tell her its over 4 good an 2 move on!.. i kno shes not realy intrested in other guys either, well, not atm anyway!.. shes always said shes bein honest wi me bcos i deserv it.. but she fryin my head! wat do i do now??.. do i blank her now completly an move on.. or do i w8 2 c wat she does??.. i just dont kno!!! i feel like she cant bring hersel 2 say the words 2 actualy finish it, so i will hav 2. i just dont kno wats rite an wats rong anymor. wat i do kno is that shes very special 2 me. do i keep fiten for this luv.. or am i fitin a losin battle?? sry 4 the long article ppl, but i think ues need scope on my situation! evry1s opinions wud b gr8fuly apreciated!

Either she's got no confidence and suffering from depression or she is just playing with you. I can't think of any other reason why she would say you can do much better. If she really wanted you, she would definitly try to be the better person. Kinda a give away if she likes her nights out. But you will never know the truth unless you ask ;) good luck Phil