What to do

I have been married for 30 yrs and for about the last 5 my husband and I have been living in the same house but not really living together. I have a problem with sex as I don't like sex. I don't know what the problem is but I don't like being held and I don't seem to be able to get close to my husband. I don't love him any more but I do care. What do u think I should do?

I have always not been interested in sex . My husband was the only man I've had sex with. I was very young when u became pregnant and had a child. 5 years ago we had a big fight and he said u do ur thing and I'll do mine. We have never talked about things as he will not talk about our problems. He is a man who doesn't want to face anything. I have never talked to a gyn about my problem as I'm a very shy and keep things to myself. We always have fought about money as his money is his as I only work casual . He is a generous man to his friends but not to me.

So why are you sad? It seems like the two of you are in agreement.