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I'm just another dude you may see in the streets, just another face in the crowd, and so its almost the end of my college semester and theres this girl i really really like...as cliche as this sounds im sure you all out there have heard similar stories like these, so mine may not matter. But hell, this girl, shes amazing to me like shes the only person i would think about every single minute of this very day. I keep telling myself that i shouldn't get too attached or form a strong bond with her because at the very end of the day i just know i'm going to end up getting hurt and that i've only got a year left with her before we take part in different directions when it comes to university. I tell myself relationships at this age at this time, are just phases of life, just another memory to reminisce in the future, but right now i've been thinking negatively pestimistically when i really shouldnt. people tell me relationships are like a song, theres always an end to one, but that doesn't mean i shouldn't enjoy it whilst i can. Its just that i really cannot bare thinking bout how this is going to end, without her i'll miss her alot. I know other people out there may have stronger relationships etc. but all the times that i've had with her were beautiful and as corny as this sounds, shes so much more different than any other girl i've talked too. I know this is really unfair because i'm judging and generalising people before knowing them but i could really connect with her we've got an amazing chemistry together and i could literally talk to her for hours without getting bored. So please if there is any suggestions out there on how i could tackle this i'd appreciate it alot

Relationship phase

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I am a 44 year old woman and as I read this I think, how beautiful. I have had many relationships in my life and have some wonderful memories from many of them. Just so you know, most of us do recover from heartbreak. I know now that I would have rather experienced the relationship than to have not--even though it ended. So, my advice is to just go with it. Give it all you got. If it ends, then of course, you will experience the pain. However, love will have been and lessons will have been learned. If it doesn't end, then it will go where it goes. Don't hold back because of something that could or could not happen. At your age, experiencing love and loss it what it's about. I say do it. I am touched by your emotion.

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