I can't believe it

We dated for 3yrs,i love him with all i have,the distance between us is far but yet i always manage to visit him whenever am less busy,i felt he loves me just recently i lost his labtop after few days he called to tell me he want to talk with me i went only to tell me its over after sending me a message that he loved me out of sympathy, i felt so bad after all that we've shared.he left me for another girl beos i lost his labtop.

Okay, first of all, he didn't leave you because you lost his laptop. He left you because he found another girl. Saying he loved you out of sympathy is not really love at all. Maybe you really loved him but it wasn't returned. Now you have a broken heart and time will heal that. You need to find out who you are without this guy and become that person. Then you will attract the guy that fits you into your life. Don't worry too much about guys right now. Just think about yourself and your broken heart WILL mend. Cry when you need to but don't blame yourself. Keep moving forward. Find goals and work towards accomplishing those. Everything will work out for you.