I'm a cruel person

Ok I know I sound horrid.. I am 26 I married my school sweetheart when I was 19 and we have been together forever I do get a lot of male attention but have always ignored it however the last year I have been texting this guy in my area it started friendly and we haven't met up but we got very flirty . I have ignored his snap chats and messages but i really miss him I loved chatting to him I don't know why as he is not my type he is fat ugly and Les himself so much he doesn't work and lost his driving licence for drink driving. My husband however solves all my problems and also works very hard I have a baby with my husband and his a good man but the excitement of being with this other guy makes me so sexually excited and I hate feeling like this. I just want to get over him his so bad for me even if I was sibfle

Don't listen to Nike on this one. Just don't do it.

I agree you should stop, however, you shouldn't retrospectively worry too much about it or take it too seriously because this man is obviously just a tool for you to use to do what you never got to do in your youth, which is, flex your FLIRTING muscles... hence why it's immaterial to you that you find him physically and psychologically unattractive. I'm going to suggest to you to try sending a naughty, flirty text to your husband. You may THINK you know all there is to know about the guy but - prepare to be surprised, both at his reaction and the effect it'll have on your relationship. *Very*.