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Hi, I am 29 years old worked as a software professional. I am suffring from Scioliosis, many of people are not aware of this its a physical issue related to the spinal cord. My spinal cord is little curved. Although I can walk run do all activities nothing hampers me since my childhood. I was in luv with a guy for 3 years we were together and he never came to even know abt this we were abt to marry but before marriage I told him everythg about me. Surprisingly he denied to marry me and got married to someone else. This incidence have ruined my life a lot. I have started hating myself. I decided to go for arrange marrig but same issue no one is ready to marry me. Altough m beautiful,professional earning high salary still been rejected always. I am really fed up of my life dont want to live any more.. I cant understand this world. Do peoples with any disabilty cant dream. What can we do if God created us like this. Can anyone reply me what shall I do ????

Can a physical disabled achieve everything

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Hi Sneha, I'm truly sorry to hear about your rejections merely because the people you meet are not open-minded about your Scoliosis. Since it's only a little curved, it shouldn't even be an issue in the first place. I know that being unable to find someone who can accept your fully as you are is hard to bear. And I can understand your frustrations about being judged for your condition instead of who you really are. Nobody is born perfect in the first place. As you've said, you are a beautiful professional earning a high salary. That shows that you are capable, so do not allow rejection to make you forget that or to question your self-worth. It's the loss of those who cannot appreciate you. There are a few things you can do. Firstly, go on living your life as you always have and doing the best job that you can do. Secondly, try looking for more open-minded or different types of guys in different places than you normally would. Trying new things will lead to new results. Above all, do not give up or despair. God puts us through trials and tribulations so that we can learn to be wiser from experience to handle greater things. "What is to give light must endure buring." -Viktor Frankl Regards, The Vizier http://hanofharmony.com

Can a physical disabled achieve everything

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Thanks Vizier for you response. I am really trying hard to regain myself after my breakup and to live my life again with a new start. Hopefully I can make it......

Can a physical disabled achieve everything

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I am really glad to see that you are trying your best to face life bravely again. It's not easy and it requires great courage. If you do face some problems and difficulties in the process, please do not hesitate to find me at http://hanofharmony.com. I'll be more than happy to help you in any way I can. :)

Can a physical disabled achieve everything

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yes you are really a brave person i have read about that in internet and people believe that it can be treated if you have time please visit http://www.treatingscoliosis.com and i believe that there is nothing impossible,of course its hard to keep on believing in this but if you do you can see the result

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