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Does she mean it or not?

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Hi there, Me and my GF went on a break about 1,5 week ago, and at first she said that she needed time to find herself and be happy again, and said that she didn't know if we would get together or not. After 5 days I went out there to take my stuff, and I find out that she was already on Tinder, actually the day after we went on a break. I then confronted her, and she said that she just needed it to get some attention from other boys... But she deleted it afterwards and said that she felt sick whenever she was reminded that she could do something like that.. Then we agreed that we won't contact each other, and then she promised me that we will back together, but she just needed time to be happy and find herself again. I was cried before she said it, so I doubt that se meant it. She then keeps logging in to my Facebook on her computer, and check what I do.. Now I just saw that she deleted me on Facebook. Not the friends that we I introduced her to, just me. My question is: Did she mean it when she said we would be together again? Why did she delete me on FB Why does she keep checking my Facebook? And What do I do? regards, Mads

Does she mean it or not?

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This is a classic case of someone wanting their cake and eat it too. Do yourself a favor and run away as fast as you can. She is a "game player." I had a similar problem a few years ago and learned the hard way that is takes someone strong to be able to "let go." You could be spending quality time with someone new that is truly interested in YOU. Your so-called GF only has her welfare in mind. Find yourself a "nice" girl and move on.

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