Problems after engagement
ASHI - Nov 25 2015 at 17:31
I am newly engaged to a guy.Its an arranged one by our family.Problem is i had a past in which i had a sexual relationship.While first meeting basis with this new guy i did mentioned about my past with a given limit that i havent crossed my limits and all...that because i cant specify all details at that meeting.That time he said yes confirming that he is ok with all this and i asked him no to talk about past in future now. Its been 3 months and he asks me for my virginity now.i am so pissed off and instead of controlling the situation i got angry for asking that question and at the end i said no am not virgin.His last words were " i wont talk to you anymore" .Now i did talk about this to my family as the matter was going out of my hands and i even got to know he talked about this stuff in his family.But i personally need an advice that i m a modern girl with open thoughts and fun lifestyle whereas hes total opposite.And i get this how conservative he is.what shall i do?
What do you mean by "not crossing your limits"
When you say he asked you for your virginity does that mean he wants proof that your are a virgin? If so how is this done? or does he want to have sex?
Well i think u r an asian/middle east or somewhere close to that?
No u shudnt have told abt ur past to him in the fst instant becos men are men they want a wife of clean past .and if he asked abt virginity u could have said yes i am .. Later even if he found out u could make an excuse that i was an athelte in colg running etc may hav caused such changes