2nd again

I've been with this man for 9 months. I haven't slept with any one but him. I have grown feelings for him. We both said we didn't want a relationship at first but now that I have feelings for him I really want one. We were at a sporting event and a girl showed up and I freaked out on him (later by text). Now he says he just wants to be friends and that's it. I'm confused is he doing this because he has found someone else

Since you now know that he is not looking for a committed,except it don't waste any more time hoping things will change. Break it off and move on.

That's the deal I don't know if he wants a commitment but just not with me.

Leave him dun waste time loyalty is everything.