Dont know what to do

I started seeing this guy in September. We went out for a month but then he wanted to become intimate and I wasn't ready so I stopped seeing him but we still chatted with each other. It's now December and we are still chatting here and there, he asked me out again but he doesn't message very often ...I want to know is he really interested or I am just hanging on to nothing.

Hmmm... that's kind of hard to tell. For me, dating a girl that I'm actually interested in is different than just dating someone for sex. When I'm genuinely interested in the girl I enjoy every second I get with her. If she wants to wait for sex then I'll wait for it. The fact that he has still stuck around despite you not giving him sex is a good sign, but you also have to look at the way he acts around other girls. Do you know if he's been going out with a lot of other girls? If he has then he's probably not interested in you for you. He probably just wants to get in your pants. I mean don't stalk the guy just you know do a little research on him to find out if he's been seeing other girls or not. If he hasn't then you're good to go. If he has, well then be careful.

Thanks ...I'll keep my eyes open and thread carefully....