Men-verses-women

men why have they no feelings like women,how can they be so cold when they breakup with a women,just switch off and move on with their lifes,while women are left emontionally disdraught,make excusses to women and say,i dont fancy you or put the blame on them,and leave them with a low self eteme, and the man walks away as if you never existed.why do men feel that they have to make women feel so low?can anyone anwer this

I know women who act cold and unfeeling as well. I think it has more to do with the individual than with gender. There are a number of influences on personality, but no one can lower your self-esteem except you. However, the negative feelings may get amplified when you are around a person who does not have your best interests at heart. And in that case, you should not be around that person anyway, so in the end it is best that he/she leaves.

I used to get upset with men that were like that, but in the long run, they are honest, and they are trying to tell you, they don't want to be with you, I feel they are saving your time. You will see that eventually! Try & just take care of yourself.