Friend needing help

I m at a total loss and am getting quite desperate .I have a friend of mine , she s my closest person..we never run out of things to say..we share everything together ..i owe a lot to her ..lately she went through some rough patches ,things piled up ..and they got to her...she s finding life too complex and hard..she s become withdrawn ..irritable..she doesnt talk..she s lost in her own world all the time..she s a mess and i can see her falling apart in front of me ..she doesnt let me connect to her..she s pushing me and everyone away..im torn cause i dont want to force her and mayb its better if she sorts herself out..but at the same time im so worried about her ..im scared she s gonna disintergrate to nothing ..and she s an amazing person who can get a lot out of life..should i keep on pushing? can someone tell me cause im feeling helpless and miserable over it (p.s. she suffers from depression etc but takes d necessary therapy )

Continue to talk to her about your worry for her. Let her know that you don't want to be overbearing, but you want her to be okay, and since you care about her, you will talk to her about what is going on. After saying those things, I would give her a bit more space to see if she can find someway to deal with what is going on in her life, but continue to communicate openly with her. Remind her that there are people who care about her and want to support her. Ultimately, she is the one who decides how she wants to deal with things, and she needs as much support as possible. TILES